All of us are connected. The understanding of that will open your world.

The greatest illusion that enshrouds us is that all things are individual and apart from one another. This gives us the perspective of isolationism, helplessness and need.

The belief that all things and creatures are individual entities unto themselves causes us to seek out others for companionship and validation while competing for the “things” we believe we need to sustain us and finally defending ourselves and shunning those that would do us harm or make us less than we see ourselves to be.

Once we come to the realization that all things are ONE THING and not apart from but a part of everything, life changes as fear is replaced by love and contribution replaces competition.

Spiritually and physically all of life is only 1 life with unlimited parts and components. It is the same as how our bodies have limbs, blood, organs, bacteria, enzymes, and millions of living organisms as its parts; so is the body only a small part of the WHOLE.

Everything we know as our world,(and much, much more) is God. There is no beginning or end to this life. We are individuated by our limiting thoughts of self (which is the ADAM & EVE STORY). When we focus internally we can find the point of intersection where the God mind overtakes the individuated mind. That is the small voice we call conscience.

By listening to this voice as opposed to the garbage coming at us from the illusion, we can find our purpose, live our bliss and be free from fear and pain.

This is The RealEYEzation of ONENESS. We see life through the real eyes of spiritual truth and are set free from the self imposed bondage and limitation of the self.

The Journey IS the DESTINATION.

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Magic Lamp?

There are million of people in this world that feel life comes at them with little or no control and they have no choice but accept the conditions before them as victims and lament about the grief and pain they experience.

There are also millions that believe they are in total control of their lives and are competing with the the rest of the world.

Then there are those that feel they are uber-responsible for what happens around them, and it is their responsibility to take care of others.

Well I believe that all of this is true and none of this is true. new age, new thought philosophy preaches the Unity of all of life. A few years back a book hit the market explaining the LAW OF ATTRACTION.

This “LAW” details how what we believe materializes in our life. This validates the fact that we have control and dispels the victim-hood many feel is a never ending paradigm that they are trapped in. The only issue I take with this, is that many an unenlightened thumbnailcatquuo5folk, may have interpreted this “law” as a genie in a bottle. They now stand in front of the mirror reciting affirmations of themselves being rich, fit, popular, charismatic, sex gods that are loved by millions and will live forever. Once the reality sets in that these things simply are not going to come to be, they become despondent, and feel they were sold snake oil. I am concerned about this prevailing situation as I am an advocate for all things LOA. I just understand that there is more to living from intention, creating your life on your terms, than just paying lip service to believing in fairy tales.

The Law of Attraction is absolutely working in all of us all the time. The life that unfolds before us is a product of:

  • Our choices
  • Our perspectives
  • Our beliefs
  •  Our fears
  •  Our desires
  • Our actions
  •  Our words
  • And mostly OUR EXPECTATIONS

There are many spiritual, mental, physical and philosophical LAWS that are entwined with the LOA that we need to understand. The first thing we need to grasp is that what we desire is not actually our desire.  Everything we seek is rooted in the belief that this ” thing, condition, situation, status of life, whatever” will bring us happiness and freedom from want & fear.

For instance, the desire for bundles of money is born of the fear of not having enough of the stuff we think we need: food, shelter, entertainment, friends, attention and security.

The LOA is such that the believing in the reality of your desire, means to be feeling joy at the very thought of it. When our desire is coming from a place of fear, panic, worry, and dread, we have already sabotaged the level of faith needed to manifest the desire.  Fear and faith cannot exist simultaneously such as light & dark, up & down, in & out.

The LOA is much more complex than we are led to believe. yes, if you truly, truly, at the core of your being expect a condition to materialize, it cannot NOT happen. That truly, truly expect part is the hobgoblin of the failure of millions to think they are having success with the  LOA.

We need to come to the realization that all of life is connected, we are each and integral part of this “whole” just as are limbs and organs are a part of our physical body. Then we have to understand that we are here to add to the success of the entirety of life by onethingmaking a contribution. Our gift, or talent is what we are meant to use a the puzzle piece to put in place. Then, the greater the impact we have on the collective, the more that will come back to us. karma, or as you sw=ow so shall you reap, comes into play. Then we need to have the calm resolve of knowing that simply by doing our part, all of our needs will be met, then we will not have fear. That is when we may understand that that bundle of money we thought was our wildest dream, was only an antidote for our fear. We can then change our dream to wanting to impact more lives in a positive way, (regardless the pay day).

That is when we can truly, truly believe in it being so. Then, perhaps, the karma of impacting thousands of lives will end bring you the bundle of cash you were no longer chasing.

That is another law, you have to give it away to keep it, and not want it to get, I call it the law of contradiction.

When the dust settles it all boils down to : Do unto others as you would have them do unto you, and all will be well. WE ARE ABSOLUTELY CREATING THE CONDITIONS THAT UNFOLD BEFORE US. IT MAY NOT ALWAYS BE OUR DESIRE. IT CAN VERY WELL BE WHAT WE FEAR. WHATEVER WE FOCUS ON THE MOST, SPEND MORE TIME SPEAKING, AND THINKING ABOUT, IS WHAT THE UNIVERSE SEND US.header-6 (1)

This is a very exciting topic to explore. I suggest you do!

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180 degree turn

Christmas, Hanukkah, Kwanzaa, Boxing Day, Ōmisoka, & New Years Eve/Day all have a significant impact on the mood of people around the world for about 30-45 days. The Holiday Season is known for spreading joy and merriment. At times even the most dour of curmudgeons can be jovial and accommodating. This may be download (1)directly related to the fear of being visited by the 3 ghosts as Ebeneezer Scrooge was, but I think not.

 During this time of year, the material aspect of these holidays overtakes us. There are many that shun the reference to gifts , shopping decorations and the like, lamenting that the real meaning of the holiday is lost, but I believe it is the opposite.

 You see, there are millions of people that celebrate these holidays that are not very download (2)religious. If based solely on the dogma of the day, they would more than likely ignore it. By thinking of buying gifts, visiting relatives and friends, having and attending parties we are directed toward thoughts of the joy these people bring to our lives, the gratitude we have for our inclusion in theirs and the appreciation for what download (3)we have, can share, and look forward to giving/getting.

 For Christians at Christmas, the supposed “Real Meaning” is the Birth of the Savior which brings with it hope, renewal and the possibility of better days. If a family is not completely focused on honoring the birthday of Jesus, yet they do a complete 180 from selfish, judgmental, negative habits and become outgoing, caring and pleasant (even it does not last), I say “win-win” wouldn’t you?

 My last article discussed gratitude as an attitude adjustment. Follow up the Thanksgiving season with 30-40 days of selfless reflection on making our families and friends happy is a pretty good recipe for Joy. You all know I am an advocate for being positive, and am continuously explaining how the attitude and perspective that is most prevalent in our mind will attract and create conditions that are aligned, so in my mind, anything that has us go from miserable to social is helping to transform the world.

 I know it is cliché to claim it should be Christmas every day, but we take what we can get. The fact that millions look forward to this season as the catalyst to allow them to be the joyful caring person they really want to be anyway, is a good thing. It is a shame that we need a Holiday to give us permission to be caring, but whatever it takes is fine with me. Sooner or later, we will realize that the Holiday version of ourselves, the one we look forward to, is ok to display for the other 11 months. That may take away from the special nature of the season, but I am willing to take that risk.download (4)

 Deck the halls and all that good stuff, shoot for 24/7/365, see how you like it!

 Merry Christmas, and Happy February 10th, June 7, September 22. You Can Do It!

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THANK YOU

 

I am not sure when you will be reading this, but for perspective I am writing it on October 27 2018. I am sharing that because we are entering the season where Americans come together to express their gratitude. The focus of one’s gratitude varies. To some there are deeply personal issues and others are thankful for the generalities we all share, but there are as many reasons to be thankful as there are DNA markers.

I say that, while watching the news of 11 people killed in Pittsburgh, after days of hearing about bombs sent to Democrat politicians and celebrity activists, which images (1)was preceded by ricin laced letters being sent to The White House and several Republican figures. There is nothing on the news lately that demonstrates Americans being GRATEFUL about anything. Lucky for us there are 328 million people in The Good Ole US of A. What we see thrust at us from the media may tend to reflect 2-3% of us.  I’m not jumping on the “fake news” train, but sharing that news in general is only reflective of very few, out front, public situations. The vast majority live our lives in relative obscurity, bordering on anonymity. Like the tip of an iceberg, what we see is minutia compared to what is there. That is certainly a relief to me, how about you?

Tragedy and calamity sells. The media will push anything in front of us that seems outrageous, contentious, or volatile, just to get the attention. Then we feed into, share it and allow the negativity to expand exponentially until it seems that all there is, is crap. Fortunately that is not the case. If you have ever read anything I have written, you know I attempt to bolster positive thinking, speaking, sharing and actions. I know that positive energy and negative energy cannot exist in the same time/space environment. Likewise, Joy, peace, success, and contentment will not flourish in a negative place.

 As we draw near to Thanksgiving, I invite everyone to look at the life directly in front of you, find reasons for gratitude; ( health, stability, love, family, safety, home, job, friends, freedom from tyranny, freedoms of speech, expression etc, and the opportunity to control your own destiny), and be grateful for them. Now to be truly grateful, we must also send out vibes that will support gratitude. Those would be: acceptance, forgiveness, charity, encouragement, support, love, peace and service. To be truly thankful, we must espouse our own gratitude lest we be hypocritesguys. Any authentic expression demands a genuine commitment to the value of it.

Now for the true “life affirming” component of gratitude: SHARE IT! Speak of only positive situations within your inner circle. images (3)Post those weddings, births, puppies and butterflies on social media. Turn off the negativity of the news and refuse to discuss their toxic stories, “fake or real”. If we claim to be grateful, we will strive to attract, and create more of the same. We will never attract peace with hammer. This year, we should all say Thank You!

My FB Page ( Positively Speaking) https://www.facebook.com/PositivelySpeaking.JR/ will be posting a gratitude affirmation everyday until Thanksgiving. Feel free to visit my page and post yours in the comments.

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LAW OF ATTRACTION vs. FAITH DESIRE FOR ABUNDANCE & WEALTH

The law of attraction is a New Age, New Thought, term for the spiritual condition that creates our experience.  In the James Allen Classic :” As A Man Thinketh” The Law of Attraction ( LOA) is defined as like conditions, attract like conditions, or all things unto themselves are drawn.

Many variations of this term have been coined in the last 2 hundred years by a plethora of authors to describe the mindset that creates our reality. In recent times it has been more closely ascribed to the thought process needed to create the conditions of your dreams, goals, and strongest desires. We are told,; As a man thinks, so shall he be; Believe it and you will receive it; whatsoever you believe in your heart, shall show up in your life; etc, etc ad infinitum! So the new belief among those open minded enough to stray from the religious doctrine of their clan is that you will live out your widest dreams if you believe you will.  There are hundreds of thousands of books, workshops, programs, retreats, hypnotherapeutic downloads, up loads and vides that are marketed toward this demand. I have read, worked, and followed many. I am quite attuned to the mind, body, sprit, science, physic, religion connection. I believe with all my heart in these truths.

Having been raised catholic/Christian, and well read on Buddhism, Taoism, Zen and the like, I can clearly see the religion behind this religion-free life guidance. In all iterations of Christianity, the LOA is a GOD-FREE way of explaining faith.

  1.  Christianity: Luke 17: 6 If you had faith the size of a mustard seed you would say to this mulberry tree, “ Be uprooted and planted in the sea”, and it would obey you
  2. Mark 9:2.  Everything is possible for one who has faith.
  3. Mark 11: 24.What things so ever you desire, when you pray, believe that you have already received them, and you shall have them.
  4. Mark 10:52 Go, your faith has healed you

The component that is completely glossed over in both New Age & Christian understanding (for the most part) is that these explanations, lessons, edicts’ or revelations, are an undeniable, immutable truth prevalent in all aspects of the unfolding of life. Many believe that both Faith & the LOA are only relevant with respect to strong concerns and desires. E.g., praying for a sick loved one, asking God to help with a relationship, praying for riches, health and happiness. Or;  trying to attract success, wealth, love, & relationship etc. The piece that gets lost is that every aspect of life, individually & collectively is born of the mind of the experience. So not only the outcome of the big test, of whether I get the promotion, is at stake, but if I have a stuffy nose or img_3634not, if the sun shines or rains pours on my BBQ, when I stub my toe or not and if traffic is light or heavy and parking space available or not. It is all base upon our thoughts.

 

My assertion is that you cannot attempt to “apply” faith or the LOA toward a specific component of life. They are the catalyst for the unfolding of your entire experience and thus in continuous operation, albeit unconscious. Those that attempt to alter outcomes consciously by following program steps and techniques, and continue to be disappointed, are steered toward clearing methods to remove the blockage in their subconscious mind that is preventing them to truly believe in the realization of their intent.  You see, you must unequivocally believe in order to receive: Mark 11: 24.What things so ever you desire, when you pray, believe that you have already received them, and you shall have them. The repetition of endless affirmation in the mirror, and the digestion of positive materials alone will not alter your inner most convictions. Perhaps they may, with a serious investment work, & time a few will realize their dream. One of the issues I see is that every day, minute, second sans intentional manifestation, yields a modicum o resentment, doubt & disappointment. This is a natural human reaction. These negative emotions derail our attempt at creating that wild dream.

 

The point where Religion and New Thought diverge is when it come to the catalyst for such endeavors. The Bible will never advocate striving for riches, status, wealth, power & abundance.  These conditions while comfortable and widely sought after, are excessive desires. We all have heard that money cannot buy happiness, etc. So let us look at the reason behind EVERYTHING.

The # 1 human desire is happiness & joy. I believe we were created as extensions of, and components of 1 LIFE, such as branches of tree, or droplets of water in the ocean. All is ONE. The myriad of representations of THE 1 create unlimited diversity that allows for downloadexperience, which is necessary for JOY. The Bible tells us : do unto others, etc. and be charitable, and what you do to them, you do to me.  We are also taught that we each have a special gift or talent that is to be used to contrinute to the well being of the common good, in the same way your legs propel you, and your eyes show the way, each of us needs to do our part like pieces of a puzzle. When we are using our gifts ( the talents that bring us joy to exercise) and make a contribution to the WHOLE, then  the WHOLE responds in kind, and our needs are met. ERGO: NIRVANA, or HEAVEN ON EARTH.

 

With Faith, and with the LOA, opposing conditions will cancel each another out. To pray for relief from a health concern, if you pray with ease, gratitude and an absolute knowing that your GOD is fixing the situation and you have no reason to be concerned, you will be healed. If you pray while filled with fear, dread and hopelessness, that is the indication that your faith is not genuine and you will not find relief.

 

Looking at the # 1 reason people flock toward LOA programs and teachings; wealth. We need to analyze motives. A strong desire for wealth, abundance, power, money & things, is born of the fear thatimagesCAAITJOZ happiness and joy cannot be realized without them. There is fear that we will not have “ enough” to survive our days comfortably.  This exposes the truth that the #1 situation we are all trying to attract is coming from fear, when we will only attract conditions that are aligned with our feelings of love, gratitude, and joy. This will sabotage any effort to follow a specific intent.

 

SO, If I love to paint, ( yes even just paining houses, barns or fences, the desire path I should be praying for, of affirming the LOA for should not be to receive unlimited steams of income, but to help as many people as far and wide as possible to receive joy from my work. Knowing that those that experience my work are always very happy and walk away better for having encountered me, this will not create opposition. My desire, and what I am convicted is real are aligned. Now, I can either become wildly wealthy through a booming business that creates franchises and becomes a major  worldwide conglomerate, or I can make a modest living in a small town, while also helping those less fortunate, and provide jobs, and either way, be ecstatically happy. The end result after all is joy, is it not?

I believe that praying for, or trying to USE the LOA to create any condition that is born of fear and pain, is doomed to fail. While praying or intending to spread joy, and make a positive contribution to the ALL & ALL will unfold with ease and synchronicity. Whatever the financial or relational result is, it will be coupled with peace of mind and joy, rendering the needs moot.

 

My Book: 1st Things 1st, My Journey with The LOA speaks to these and other revelations I have had from over 35 years of focus on thought, creation, mind, spirit teaching.

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I am not setting out to claim the LOA is a hoax or snake oil. Many well meaning authors, teachers, coaches, lecturers and Gurus genuinely attempt to improve life with these lessons. I am one that has gone down the path, experienced the frustration that many have, and determined why.

To set the record staright: I believe with all my heart that as we believe, we receive. I also feel that to alter that to meet fear based desires is akin to the shoveling sand against the tide. It is a good place to be focused, but the likelyhood of ever getting where we are aiming is slim.

 

Check your motive, alter you desire, align with the universe, and things will unfold with less effort.

Namaste`

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The Voice of Choice

There are moments when one has to choose between living one’s own life fully, entirely, completely, or dragging out some false, shallow, degrading existence that the world in its hypocrisy demands.” Oscar Wilde

Who am I really? Why am I here? How did I end up in such a mess? I deserve better! They did this to me! Why me, what have I done wrong? This is an example of the conversation we all have with ourselves when we aren’t having the life experience we feel we should have. The outright refusal to take responsibility for our results, and abject denial of complicity is rampant in society today. Many of us are miserable and we point fingers outwardly demanding reparation for our pain come from the same illusory “them” that we claim victimization of. I see this as another manifestation of mental illness. They say doing the same thing repeatedly and expecting different outcomes is insane. Well I say, blindly jumping on the “ bandwagon” then complaining about where you go, is also insane.

We have our parents, family, friends & neighbors, faith groups, schools, political leaders, media, entertainment community, sports world, fashion and tech culture all putting out examples of who we should be, how we should live & behave.  The desire to “fit in”, and be accepted is so strong, that we compromise our integrity, discard our sense of self and make choices that conform to one of the above pressure groups, (and they are pressure groups as they are all vying for our allegiance, that will translate to power & $$), then lament about our the victims robe we have adorned ourselves with blaming it on forces in opposition to those whose side we chose. After all; they are always trying to get us, aren’t they?

I can’t discern if it is weak mindedness, confusion, laziness, or fear that motivates one to conform, but it is way to prevalent these days. So many that live in pain, poverty, debt and fear, blaming society for their lot, can look in the mirror and see that the situation of their life is a direct result of choices they have made. No matter how strong the pull or encompassing the model is, we ultimately decide to acquiesce or ignore. No outside force can rob us of our ability to choose, and choice is tethered to every action word and deed in our lives.

When we scrutinize the conditions we find ourselves navigating through everyday, asking the questions listed above and voicing our dissatisfaction, we need to look at our decisions and own the results. Then, and only then will be able to create lasting change. When we point the finger of blame, we imprison ourselves behind the bars powerlessness believing that “they did this, so they have to help me”. Alas, we do not accept our lack of power and take to the streets to assert our right to live our own bliss, and rebel against “Them” for the poor choices WE have made. Sounds a little hinky to me.

The opopeye-yam-spinnly path to bliss is on a carpet of authenticity. Look within and determine what truly brings you joy, absent of anything external. Make choices based upon that, and the questions will go away. Popeye knew it, he always said: “ I YAM WHAT I YAM!”

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The Mess of Stress

The Mess of Stress.
Headaches, Depression, Heartburn, Rapid Breathing, High Blood Pressure, Insomnia, Upset Stomach/gastrointestinal issues, Weekend immune System, Muscle Tension, Erectile Dysfunction,  & menstrual Issues
ALL SELF INFLICTED, stressALL A MATTER OF CHOICE
ALL BORN OF ERRONEOUS THOUGHTS
COMPLETELY AVOIDABLE
CHOICE
Stress is a killer. Although the physical effect on the body is the issue, it is not a disease. Stress is not bacterial, viral. infectious, or contagious. There is no procedure that can remove it surgically, or biologically.  Stress is 100% PERSONAL!  This  man 
killer is completely self-inflicted and born of thought by choice.

We can’t see or touch stress. One would think it looked like a lump of solid bile, or dried vomit, but it is tasteless, colorless & odorless. That is why it sneaks up on us when we stress 2least expect it. So just what is this monster and why do so many suffer from it? Even more importantly, how do we rid ourselves of it, or avoid it altogether?

The good news is that we need not rely on ground breaking methods or state of the art equipment. Nor do we need astronomically priced pharmaceuticals. The good news, great news is that we can THINK IT AWAY! We can do this because we thought it into existence in the first place. Stress is brought on by worry. Worry is thinking about the possibility for negative situation  that may occur in the future, or disturbed about current and past negative situations. The thought of devastating fallout from our action or inaction creates fear. 99% of the time, that which we project never happens, or when it does, the impact is minimal compared to what we were fearful of. Even if our worst fear came true, having worried to begin with does nothing to mitigate the situation. The worry only makes matters worse, or at least seem & feel worse. When we worry about the outcome of an event, our ability to perform in such a manner to prevent our dreaded outcome is minimized by our fear and anxiety.

Too many people are stressed about finances, relationships, and job performance. We all need to dial it back a bit. If we do the best we can, we need to know that  that is all we can do, then deal with the outcome when it presents itself. I am not advocating that we don’t care, but we need to release the though that we are so important that our actions are as critical as our minds are imagining they are. That is the epitome of arrogance to begin with.

Some of the most stressed folk I know are the ones that outperform the masses to begin with. The quintessential perfectionist who holds him/herself to standards that are way above the rest of us, usually have the highest levels of anxiety. The real funny thing is that those of us that look quite inept in their shadow, are stress free.

If we are feeling stressed, we need to navigate through our day, offering the common good of society our best effort, be grateful for our ability, and leave it alone. Perhaps I don’t get the promotion & raise, or win the award, or trophy, But erectile dysfunction, gastro issues and headaches with a fatter bank account and wall of trophies is no way to live. There is no joy in that.

Do what you do as good as you can, and KNOW that it is enough. After all, whatever we are doing, it is only to create more joy in our lives anyway, so why sabotage it from the beginning? Worry  is negativity about the future. I know we are all tired of hearing this, but thinking on the bright side, and harboring a positive attitude changes everything. We each are responsible for what and how we think. No matter what (THEY) do to us, THEY can’t make us think a certain way. We are completely in control of our thoughts. Ergo, we are completely responsible for, and able to rid ourselves of: STRESS!

 Love yourself and it all goes away!calm

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Not “Out There”

We are all looking for happiness and peace. Our problem is that we are looking in the wrong place. Too many of us think that that we need ‘SOMETHING”, or some condition, better yet, the stars needs to be in alignment and then I will be happy. But there is nothing “OUT THERE”. 382941_213983558683610_1787497124_nWe look to outside conditions to bring us what we need, forgetting that the conditions we see “OUT THERE” came from within us.

LIFE IS OUR INNER MOST THOUGHTS AND BELIEFS BEING PROJECTED ON THE SCREEN WE CALL REALITY.

Success, peace, love and happiness, are states of mind that stem from gratitude and overall love of life. Once we are in this state of mind, all of our dreams will come true. We have been living “ass-backward” hoping for our creations to bring us peace, while we can only create peaceful conditions when we are at peace.

While there is tremendous value in bettering ourselves, elevating our standard of living, and moving up the corporate ladder, no accomplishment, acquisition of material, or achievement will bring happiness to us if we are not happy to begin with. The new house, spouse, job, or weight loss will alter the outward appearance of who we are, but do nothing for the inner sense of self. Conversely, coming to terms with our true self; that which makes us tick, what we get excited about, the things we are good at and enjoy doing (Which are our gifts to the world by the way), is the only way to feel authentic joy, as opposed to temporary, manufactured joy. Then, the cascading affect of our joy will result in us attracting the things we thought we needed to be happy to begin with.  This is the age old paradigm of what comes first the chicken or the egg.

For me, I love writing these types of articles. I like speaking about positive, inspirational topics, and I really enjoy explaining how great life can be when we live intentionally from these and other such principles. SO here I sit, writing this piece for no other reason than it makes me whole. Sure I would appreciate more $$. I would also not mind losing 5, (or 35) pounds, but if I wasn’t using my insight to attempt to improve the quality of life for those that may be looking for such answers, I would be miserable.

 

401726_213978965350736_434093528_nWhen we look to the external reality all around us, we must cease from expecting it to SAVE us, and realize that we are seeing what we have put there. Looking within for those situations that have restricted our ability to live in joy and changing how we view life will then put an entirely different picture outside the window of our creation.

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NOTHING EXTERNAL WILL ALTER YOUR LIFE AS ALL EXTERNAL CONDITIONS COME FROM WITHIN. COME TO KNOW WHO YOU REALLY ARE AND THE REWARD WILL FOLLOW!

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Who is this?

The greatest tragedy of modern times, with all the technology and communication is that we are exposed to the entirety of human knowledge, experience, perception and imagery. While on the surface these advances may seem like like progress, we are victimized by our tendancy to compare, envy, judge and fall victim to our insecurities.

Those that lack confidence, self-assurance and true identity awareness, compromise their authenticity to fit into the mold that appears to be most widely reflected in the portion of society the individual  is most drawn to. This results in way too many people playing a part, wearing a mask,ug refusing to allow their genuine personality to make the requisite contribution to the  “WHOLE” that it was intended to make. This leaves the Mosaic of life with missing pieces.

Life is like a puzzle.images Each and every thing, person, component has a purpose. When the true nature of any part is corrupted, the entire picture is compromised.

Do not let the desire to be “Like” others cause us to be less than ourselves. Life demands authenticity.  Look inside and allow yourself to come out! When our authentic contribution is made to the collective of life, love is represented and joy reigns supreme.

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Water Level Remains Constant

water_10One of the very first pieces I ever wrote for publication was for the CT Citizen News. I gave it the same title as this article. In the piece, I addressed the futility of attempting to be other than what we actually are. We’ve all heard the axiom:” A leopard can’t change its spots”. The article was a humorous recollection of how we had to clean our garage every year by taking everything out into the street, tossing away half of it, cleaning & sweeping, then replacing everything of value and purpose in a strategic manner that we could easily access them. Within a few short weeks, the garage once again looked like a bomb hit it. The point being; if you’re a mess at heart, that messiness will find it’s way to the surface, the same as water always managing to stay at it’s own level.

Self help, personal development, and “ Life Coaches”, just like the ever-so-popular: New Years Resolution. Are all catalysts for change. So many of us live our lives seeking change, or at least believing change is needed to live our bliss, but convinced we aren’t capable. The feeling that the grass is always greener in our neighbors yard is at the root cause for this unilateral ennui.  Hey, bad habits, destructive behavior, toxic vices and dangerous decisions may need to be looked at, but the mass dissatisfaction with who we naturally are is detrimental to society.

Butt lifts, tummy tucks, plastic surgery, hair implants, sex change, gender identity, ADD, ADHD meds, get rich quick schemes and a host too long to list of conditions where ( What would have been referred to as normal years ago) people are taking extreme measures to be someone, something that they are not.

I am a strong advocate for bettering oneself. Complacency robs us of our ability to live to our potential.  Completely changing who, what we are however, is a whole nother ball game. Looking next door, across the street, at people on TV  and attempting to discard our identity, look, persona, and i=autheticity to emulate others is disconcerting to me.  Imagine if bears started acting like sheep, and bees stopped producing honey in exchange for building dams like beavers. What if rivers stopped flowing because they wanted to be more like  trees and  directed the water up into the air? My point is that this experience we call life, is a finely tuned  array of conditions, like an expensive instrument or a well practiced orchestra. Each component is necessary to create the beauty we encounter each day. So many are unwilling to accept their nature and highlight that which is their gift to humanity, but instead want to be  something they are not. I have rarely heard of the individuals that have gone to extremes to become something else, and after arriving claim they have found their bliss. Our bliss is at the point where we began, not at the end of any journey.

In 1933 the Popeye Classic “ I Yam whats I Yam’ was produced. No there is a piece of cinematic depth.PopeyeNuff said. We need ya’all just as your were intended to be. Authenticity, genuine personalities, “The Real Thing”, is much more appealing than any concoction born of low self-esteem and jealousy will ever be. After all, no matter how hard you try, the water will stay at it’s own level, and the leopards spots will remain. Full circle always prevails.

The Journey IS the DESTINATION

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