When appearances and opinions mean more to us than our wellbeing, we have victimized ourselves to society.
Being independent of the judgement of others is true freedom and authenticity.
The only one we need to impress and get approval from is reading this: YOU!
It is impossible to know joy, peace and harmony if we are trying to please everyone.
What THEY think does not matter.
Be you, do you, love you and you are on your correct path.