We should never be chasing conditions that we feel will bring us joy. Unless we are happy being alive and grateful for our life, there is nothing that will change that.
Improved finances or relationships may seem like they make us happy but an unhappy mind will not find peace in anything outside of itself.
Happiness and Joy come from inside us and bring with it wonderful experiences.
Gratitude, acceptance creates joy, then dreams and desires become the journey.
Wanting, needing and frantically becoming singularly focused on lack with determination will bring more of the same.