This is so so much! Years ago, I was told by a very wise man, regarding mood, attitude and feelings; “if you can’t feel it fake it until you do. “
And the concept of 12 step programs and recovery the saying is fake it till you make it.
Artificially projecting a mood or an attitude is absolutely a good way to alter from a bad place to a good place to repetitive action will eventually result in the false façade becoming realistic condition.
But don’t mistake. The lack of authenticity was being genuine. The real self will always shine through for others. Putting a mask on does not hide what’s inside.
Too many business people, politicians, celebrities, and those in authority have nothing but contempt for those they serve they go to great lengths to come across accommodating accepting and patient. Little do they know the true colors always shine through. If you’re in a bad place and you need to “act as if“ be careful not to sell that as genuine or authentic as your integrity will surely be compromised.
The true you will always show through.