As a responsible, productive adult, there are many things that need to be done. Some of these tasks bring me joy to do. Others are difficult. Some things that need my attention are just boring and mundane, but need to be done nonetheless.
Then there are my hobbies, passions, and a plethora of things that bring me joy.
I have a choice, each and every day, in each moment of the day, to do whatever I like.
Unfortunately, most of the conditions that I find very pleasing are not undertakings that I am responsible to do. To provide for myself snd my family there are many many situations that need my attention. In order to offer something to society in exchange for making a living there are also things that need my time and energy that may not be very fun.
There are also health wellness and fitness undertakings that I know are good for me that is sometimes difficult and not very enjoyable.
The easiest choice is always to go with what brings most pleasure. However, if and when that is my choice, there was always a tremendous amount of guilt causing me stress and anxiety as I realize I am not taking care of my responsibilities for myself, for my family, for society and my income.
There’s also the knowledge that while doing the fun stuff, I am not growing and likely moving backwards with my personal development.
First and foremost it’s very easy to just stay in bed. We all know how that turns out.
Mark Twain was spot on right here when he said this.
I’ve come to understand that once responsibilities are all taken care of, and we carve out some time for enjoyment, we can truly enjoy it. There is more joy in knowing my security is ensured then there is in playing.
Being an adult has its rewards.