It should never be about them. Our desires, intentions, plans, goals, and dreams should all be about aligning with what is best for us.
The greatest vision of the grandest version we can hold of ourselves has nothing to do with “them“.
To enjoy the satisfaction of personal development with physical, emotional, mental, spiritual, and financial growth, all intention should be based solely on what empowers us in spite of what we see around us.
What works for us may not work for others. Conditions to bring other satisfaction may do absolutely nothing for our well-being. Concern over appearances and comparisons are born from a sense of insecurity, which is rooted in pain and the inability to love oneself.
At some point in life, a parent teacher, or someone in a position of authority tried to instill in us. The fact that life is not all about us. That couldn’t be further from the truth.
The life of each individual is absolutely all about them. We may concern ourselves with the well-being of the world around us, and have the intention of making a positive impact which is great such undertaking, however, is a path to joy and self fulfillment which while being altruistic is selfish at its core. That is a good thing. We live to experience joy do whatever you can while you can to ensure that.

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